What I Think About True Love

I’ve been in love for so many times so I have my brokenhearted as much. But I have never understood about what true love really means. Mom said,“There is no such thing as true love. Love changes after you get married through the difficulties of life.”
While my friends said,“True love? We need money. You can get any love you want if you’re rich” and the other laughing and said,“Love? 🙂 You can’t eat love to live. No. There’s no such as true love. Love changes, hun.”

Yes, they were right. Love changes. Due the financial problems, lack of communication, temptation, relationship, and many others. I have seen many marriages destroyed by trivial things, as well as mine. As far as I know, we have lost all of love’s capabilities. Ego always steps forward when respect disappear. Money can step down patience. Silence can bring other temptations into the path.

Last night, just before bed, me and my love read the Bible, Ephesians 5:33 :
“However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.”

Well, it got me thinking about what love means. Some sort of my logical connection starting with the “Love” word.
When you really love someone, you would only want to make them happy. Then caring is standing right beside love. When you’re caring, you would do anything to protect them, take care of them, providing their needs even when the economic stormed you to the ground. Their smiles would give you the strength you need to stand on your feet again. That’s when support formed. Support always plays a big role around here, it could bring your steps all the way to the top.  Without you realize it, your love ones hang a tiny “lucky charm” called trust, along with support. If love still there, you would give them back the “lucky charm” with honesty. But when you decide to keep honesty under your tongue, that means love has walked away.

Sometimes honesty can be hurtful, as they say, tongue has no bone but it can cut you deeper than a blade. However, if you love someone as much as you love your own body, you would not want to hurt them in any form, not even by words. That’s when respect is born. Respect defeats ego then transformed ego into understanding and forgiveness.
When they’re all gathered around you and your love ones, praises will flowing like the river streams that’s never end.

Love, caring, support, trust, honesty, respect, understanding, forgiveness. Together they’re undefeatable. Blending, united as one, conquering the rocky life. That’s how True Love‘s twine embosom you and your love ones.

Thank you all for reading. If possible, I need to know if I’m missing something else.
Have a good day  🙂

Air Force vet with Parkinson’s shares deep-brain stimulation surgery on video | MLive.com

GRAND RAPIDS, MI – There was a time when Mike Harder didn’t want to even think about deep brain stimulation for his Parkinson’s disease.

“It’s brain surgery, you know?” he said. “I waited as long as I could.”

Now, he stars in a series of videos created by Mercy Health Saint Mary’s about deep brain stimulation, documenting his journey before, during and after the procedure. Harder, a 46-year-old Air Force veteran, agreed to share his story to help others understand what is involved and how it improved his quality of life.

The uncontrolled movements that he calls “the wigglies” have subsided so much that he can drive a car again. Walking, exercise and simply sitting in the stands to watch a baseball game are so much easier. And he is now taking three to six pills a day for Parkinson’s, instead of about 18.

One year later after the surgery. He simply can do almost everything he loves.

Fishing is one of his things

via Air Force vet with Parkinson’s shares deep-brain stimulation surgery on video | MLive.com.